Some people are lucky enough to be born great kissers.  They just know how to kiss a boy and how to kiss a girl.  Even their first kiss was seductive and delicious.  Others know the basics of how to kiss but would like to learn how to kiss better and how to be the best kisser their partner has ever had. 

The most important rule when it comes to kissing is not to hurry.  Time stands still when it comes to kissing.  If you want to master the art of kissing and learn how to kiss better you need to take it real slow.   

I will always Susan Sarandon in Bull Durham saying to Kevin Costner how she loves “Long, slow, wet kisses”.  Mmm. So do I.  When I personally think of kisses that’s the kind of kiss I think of.  It’s not rushed, it lasts a long time and it’s a hot and sexy French kiss.  When a kiss should be as sensual as this why would you want to rush it?

Kissing is about feeling passion, feeling real hot, feeling really sexy.  Savour the taste, the smell and the experience and really, really enjoy it. 

Here are some suggestions to helping you learn how to kiss and to become a better kisser. 

1. Variety is the spice of life.  Vary your kisses so your kisses don’t become boring and predictable.  If you excite your partner with your spontaneity they will want to kiss you more often to see what kind of kiss you have in store for them today.

2. Let your partner get used to your kisses and give them the chance to enjoy them.  Never be rushed and never be in a hurry to change the style of your kisses.  Allow each kiss to linger on your partner’s tongue.

3. When it comes to kissing practice does make perfect.  Kissing is all about feeling confident sexually and sensually.  The more you do it the better kisser you will become and the more kisses you enjoy the more variety of kisses you will share with other people.

4. Make every kiss personal.  Body language and intimacy is everything.  A kiss may start at the mouth but it’s actually a  kiss for the whole body to enjoy.  Our body is filled with so many raging senses.  During a kiss both your bodies will be aching to touch so don’t disappoint.  Rub their back, stroke their hair, caress their face, press up against them.  Make your kiss a full body contact experience.

5. Allow your kiss to become a body kiss.  We always aim for the mouth but our bodies love being kissed all over.  Remember to kiss below the ear, behind the neck, down their back, their forehead and anywhere else that takes your fancy.

6. Pay close attention to how your love interest responds to your kisses.  You may really enjoy one style of kiss but it doesn’t seem to do anything for your love interest but when you try a different style of kiss they start moaning like crazy.  File that kiss in your memory and remember to try it often.  You’ve just found a way to really turn them on.

7. A kiss is an incredibly intimate moment.  When you kiss focus 100 percent on the kiss.  Don’t be distracted by things around you or worry about what’s going to happen next or what the kiss means.  Just kiss from the heart and give all the feeling you possibly can to it.

8. Tease your partner when you are about to kiss them.  Come within millimeters of their face and pull away.  Look like you are going to kiss them on the mouth and then kiss their neck or forehead instead. Come in real slow showing a peak of cleavage and then pretend you have suddenly forgotten to do something and move away.  Anticipating a kiss can be just as hot and sexy and kissing someone.  The more build up there is the more sensual and delicious your kiss will be.

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